Kids 3-11-10

Wow – it has been a LONG time since I’ve written about the kids. They have all been growing up so fast and we’ve had so much change over the last 9 months since I posted about them! Some of the highlights:

Erica has changed schools and is now attending a Highly Gifted classroom composed of 14 first and second graders. It’s quite a drive, but it has made such a difference in her attitude toward school and is worth the extra time and money it takes to get her there and back every day. She is currently studying Ancient Egypt and working on a project due at the end of the month. She is taking piano lessons and is very excited to pass off her last four songs in her primer book next week. She is 7 now (WOW!) and still reading everything she can get her hands on.

Isaac is preparing to start Kindergarten in the fall. He is still enjoying Preschool and has started reading quite a bit (not fluently yet but he’s getting pretty close). He loves to draw cars and play with cars and talk about cars and read about cars… They appear to be his favorite thing in the whole world! His birthday list consists of cars, cars, and more cars. He’s excited to be turning 5 in May and anxious to go to his new school in the fall. He is looking forward to playing T-ball in the spring.

Cambria is growing up just as fast as she can manage. She loves to write her name and draw cars (so she can be like her brother). She is constantly making “bookmarks” for Daddy with her name and a car with fire coming out of the back (Isaac draws fire coming out of the exhaust pipes so Cambria is certain all cars must have fire coming out the back). She will also occasionally draw pictures of herself and Daddy. Lucky for me, she draws Daddy’s beard so I can tell which one is her and which one is him! She loves to help and always wants to help me with the laundry and making dinner. She loves to read books and play with her farm animals (we often go to her room to play “barn”). She is enjoying being in Primary now (Sunbeams) and is excited for her first Primary activity next weekend.

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My (Edible) Garden

A few years ago I received a book from my parents called Hello, Cupcake! One of the recipes is for a cupcake garden, which I decided to make when I was asked to bring cupcakes to an Enrichment meeting this month. They turned out SUPER SUPER cute, and I got lots and lots of compliments. As I’m not much of a cake person, I didn’t try them, but they were completely gone by the end of the night. What a hit! So thanks, Mom and Dad, for the book. And thanks, Kimball, for taking the pictures and for your help with the veggies. This is my garden for the year. Beautiful rows, no weeds, and perfect vegetables. Best of all, no sunburn and no sore fingers and knees!

Now lest you think I’m some whiz at this: be warned that it did take me 5 hours, start to finish, to make this little garden. It’s super cute, but also super time consuming! (I suppose being a perfectionist probably added a bit to the length of the project…) Fun nonetheless!

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Kids 6-22-09

So just as a reminder, the things I post here are from the sidebar on the right and so the date you see on this post is not the day these things actually happened. I’m looking at what I’m putting in here and it looks like most likely these are comments from about March or so. Pretty outdated. Just FYI!

Erica has been off track for most of the month. She’s been having friends over to play and helping me with projects. She’s getting to be quite a good helper and I’m thankful she has an interest in helping me. She also had her hair cut a week ago and looks so much more grown up now. It’s amazing to me what a difference a new hairstyle can make in how old she looks! A few weeks ago she got a catalog in the mail for the American Girl dolls and accessories. She has been looking through that catalog with her doll Dmelle (a doll that she got from her Grandma) and making lists of the things she wants to buy for Dmelle. She told me a few days ago: "I can’t let Dmelle look at the catalog with me because she is always saying how she wants all the stuff in there and it’s too expensive for me to get it all for her!" She is trying to save her money to buy a bed and blankets for her doll (the set costs $98 which is, of course, ridiculous) and is always trying to think of new ways to get money – lemonade stands, bake sales, and saving money from Christmas and her birthday. However, she’s not interested in doing jobs around the house to earn money and she has been quite irritated with Isaac who has managed, over the last week or so, to find (on the ground at the store or on the sidewalk) about seven cents. ๐Ÿ™‚

We were driving home from church today and Isaac was counting to see how high he could count before we got home. He started at 1 and counted correctly all the way to 39, which he promptly followed with 90 through 99, followed again by 30. ๐Ÿ™‚ A few days ago, we were getting ready for lunch and the kids were talking about wedding colors (don’t ask me why – I can’t for the life of me remember what got us onto that topic), and Isaac told me his wedding colors will be red, orange, yellow, purple, and blue. ๐Ÿ™‚ Isaac loves to show me on a daily basis the new things he has learned to do. These consist mainly of standing on one foot, hopping on one foot (both while holding on to something with one or both hands), and doing summersaults. At least once each day he will come to me and say "Well, Mom, wanna see what I can do?" followed by a demonstration of one or all of his newly acquired talents. He’s quite proud of his accomplishments. I have also noticed in the last week or so that he has started to pronounce the letter "r" sound which has made quite an improvement in his speech.

Cambria has begun climbing into her crib by herself when I’m not in the room. She goes up to her room to play from time to time, and the other day I was making dinner and realized it had been an awfully long time since I had seen her. When I got to a good stopping point I went up to find her and she had climbed into her crib. I’ve found here there on numerous occasions, and it will only be a matter of time until she learns to climb out. So this week (hopefully) we’re planning to move her into a toddler bed. She is very excited about it. She is growing up so fast! The other day we were outside playing and she climbed up the playset by herself and went down the slide! She loves to go outside and play, especially if one of her siblings will go out and play with her. A few days ago I was in the kitchen and Cambria came in and looked at me and sang "I have a little bottom, I need to get bigger!" Not growing up quite as fast as she wants to, I guess. ๐Ÿ™‚

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Financial Overhaul

A few months or so ago I was in the waiting room at my podiatrist’s office reading the obligatory magazine article while I waited. I’m not much of a magazine reader, but since I wasn’t currently working on a book and had already finished the Reader’s Digest for the month, it was either magazine or TV. Given that choice, I’ll always choose magazine. (Of course I suppose I could have laid down for a nap… maybe next time…)

At any rate, I thumbed through the magazine and found a few articles of interest to me. One of those was about "living debt-free and loving it" and I must say I’m always interested in what people mean when they say "debt-free" so I turned to the article and started reading. A lot of talk about paying off debts – student loans, car payments, credit cards, etc. I typically tune that stuff out because, aside from our mortgage, we have no debts. And then there was this bit about some book from Dave Ramsey and how he talks about having money envelopes, and living on your cash, and staying within your means. This is where I suddenly sat up straighter and started reading more carefully. You see, in my house there’s an issue with credit card debt. Not so much that we carry a balance on our cards as that we use the cards to pay for whatever, whenever, and then when the paycheck comes I steal from the grocery budget and savings and gas money to pay for all the stuff we put on the cards. So there’s never a balance month-to-month, but we also managed to almost never have money to put in savings. This frustrated me to no end, and try as I might, I hadn’t come up with a solution for it yet. And so I read, and absorbed as much as I could before getting called back to my exam room.

Time out while I had the nurse look at my feet, answered a bunch of questions, and then it was back to the article while I waited for the doctor to arrive "shortly" – a phrase I dread and never believe, but for once in my life was actually glad to hear and secretly hoping he’d take a while so I could finish reading the debt-free article. (I’m happy to report he did take long enough that I managed to read the entire article and have time to think about how it might work for my situation and then take a small nap before he came back to the room! I must make a point to look up "shortly" and correct my current definition.)

The meat of the article (and actually now that I think about it, this was just one of the "reader comments" and not actually part of the article itself) that interested me went something along these lines: Organize your finances such that you pay your bills and then you pay your debts, snow-balling your efforts to pay them down so that as you pay off one, you take the money you had been applying to it and apply it to the next one and so on until they’re all gone. And then, if you have money left after this, you take it out as CASH (yikes – this was the biggest change for me) and put it into envelopes, marked as the different types of spending you need. You split your money across your envelopes, however you see fit, and then when you want to buy something you go to your envelope and if there’s money in there, good for you and you can use up to that amount. If not, too bad so sad, and you wait until the money is there. Put away (or cut up if that makes this easier) your credit card and stop using it completely. Go totally cash-based.

So I got to thinking, and put together a plan that I talked over with my husband. We have since implemented the plan and, while it has taken a little getting used to, it has helped us to feel more secure in our finances and use the grocery money for groceries instead of paying off the credit card purchases for the month.

All in all, I’m quite pleased with how it has turned out. There’s an envelope for pretty much everything, and the things that don’t have an envelope come out of our individual spending money. It has been working wonders on our savings account, our pantry and freezer stock, and the financial aspect of our marriage. I’d suggest something like this to anyone who is looking for a good way to keep from spending money you don’t have yet! It worked for me, and I’m sure it can work for you too!

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Curling Orange Peel

So my younger brother is getting married, and my mom has been practicing some recipes to make for the reception. One of these is a recipe for lemon bars my younger sister brought home from school. I have to say this recipe is WONDERFUL and I quite enjoyed it. Especially the bit about how easy they are to make.

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But really – the story here is in the orange peel. In an attempt to appear decorative and fancy, we tried and tried to think of good ways to top the lemon bars last time I visited my family. We tried candied lemon peel, candy lemon slices, and making butterflies out of lemon slices. Nothing was quite right. And then my trip to visit my family ended, and home I came (armed with my sister’s lemon bar recipe).

I made the lemon bars almost immediately after coming home (tells you how much I liked them!) and started out on a quest to figure out how to properly curl orange peels, because I LOVE that look and figured it would look nice on top of the lemon bars, adding some color and interest. I was certain there was some secret to curling citrus peel, and so I set about trying to find out just what that secret might be. But nobody was telling. I was frustrated. Finally, I found a comment on a web site somewhere out there in the wide world of the internet that led me to believe there really was no secret to curling the peel – you just twist it and, magically, it stays!

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In a bit of disbelief and irritation (I’d spent a very good long time looking for this elusive secret) I went to my fruit bowl and pulled out an orange. I used my citrus scoring tool (also possibly referred to as a channel knife though this I don’t know for sure) and scored some nice lines of orange peel. I dutifully twisted them and placed them on and around my lemon bars. They looked lovely. I was impressed, but not yet convinced. Would they stay?

After we ate the lemon bars (trust me – that didn’t take long, and I think I put down at least half the pan by myself before anyone else even got a shot at them) I put the orange twists into a bowl and stored them in my fridge. Now this must have been 2 weeks ago or something and I just pulled them out to check them – they are still curled! Amazing, isn’t it? Apparently it’s the juice in the citrus that makes them stay in shape when you twist them. Color me amazed. ๐Ÿ™‚

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As a side note, I also used a microplane grater and grated a bit of orange peel onto the tops of the lemon bars for color. My kids tried to pick it off and eat it (they thought it was sprinkles) and decided then and there they don’t like lemon bars. ๐Ÿ™‚ Once I convinced them to just take a bite of the bar with the grated orange on top, they changed their stories. Really, when you don’t eat it plain, you can’t taste the bitter peel at all on top of the bars – it’s just a beautiful addition in color.

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One last note – if you plan to eat the orange that you’re scoring, better peel it pretty fast after you score it. I left the scored orange in my fruit bowl (on my counter) and tried to use it a few days later and nearly broke my nails and cut my fingers open trying to get the peel off! It had all dried up. So a word to the wise – peel the orange and store the sections in the fridge until somebody wants to eat them!

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Hooked

I’ll be the first to admit it – I’m hooked on crocheting. I love it. I have a dresser upstairs in my guest room with two drawers stuffed full of balls of yarn of varying sizes and colors, the remains of the many projects I’ve crocheted over the years. And, until we moved about 2 years ago, I had a little white tube (crocheted of course!) full of crochet hooks of almost every size. Never was I wanting for yarn or crochet hooks. Unfortunately, I managed to somehow lose my crochet hooks in the move. I’ve looked for them several times (in all the same places, but I keep hoping…) but they haven’t turned up. I really should just bite the bullet and go buy new ones, but I’m such a scrooge that I can’t bear to part with money to buy something I KNOW I already have, somewhere.

So, because I can’t find my crochet hooks, I haven’t done much crocheting over the last two years. I do still have two different hooks (of differing sizes – thank goodness for that!) that were stuck in half-completed projects tucked away in the yarn-stuffed drawers. But without the hooks my patterns called for, I just couldn’t bring myself to do any serious crocheting. Few things were appealing (or called for the hooks I still have). However, my daughter’s doll Dmelle is apparently in desperate need of clothing, and in an effort to make a point about frugality, I’ve tried my hand at crocheting doll clothes. I’m happy to say I’ve managed to modify one set of instructions for doll pajamas such that I could use the hooks I have and they (mostly) look and fit the way the original plans intended. But I think I’ve resigned myself to the fact that I’m just going to have to buy a whole new set of hooks.

If I happen to have lent you my crochet hooks (which I can’t imagine I’ve done but honestly, I’m desperate here), please speak up!

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Kids 3-22-09

Erica is preparing for her dance recital that is coming up in a few weeks. She has improved greatly since starting this dance class, and I’m very proud of what she has learned and is still learning. She will be dancing to "My Favorite Things" – the song from the musical "The Sound of Music" – and I’m certain it will be a wonderful performance. She is very excited about it!

At dinner tonight, Isaac told me (after asking for a 4th helping of Daddy’s hamburger helper) "I’m gonna eat a LOT so my tummy gets really huge!" Then, when he was finished eating, he came over to me, lifted up his shirt, stuck his stomach out as far as he could, and proudly said, "Mom – see how big my tummy is?" And then he said, "Dad, can I see how big your tummy is?" Daddy said sure, and stuck his belly out. But that wasn’t good enough for Isaac – oh no. He needed to see bare skin. So Daddy lifted up his shirt and Isaac very admiringly felt Daddy’s tummy and said "Wow Dad – that’s huge. That’s really huge!" Daddy and Mommy busted up laughing as silently and discreetly as possible. ๐Ÿ™‚

Cambria said her very first prayer without prompting tonight when I put her to bed. We sat down and I told her it was time for prayers, and then I folded my arms and closed my eyes and waited (like usual, just in case she decided to start by herself, which she never does). And to my great surprise, she said her very own prayer! "Dear Heavenly Father, please bless the food. In the name of Jesus Christ, amen." It was adorable. So I hugged her, read her a book, sang her a song, and tucked her into bed. And whatever food she’s eating in her dreams tonight is blessed. ๐Ÿ™‚

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Cabin Cooking

It has been entirely too long since I have blogged about food! It is high time I post some new stuff here for you to drool over. ๐Ÿ™‚

This past weekend my husband and I went to stay at the family cabin for a few days, without the kids. It was a relaxing trip for us both – he did fix-it-up projects around the cabin and I helped with projects and cooked up a storm of yummy food that we normally wouldn’t be able to have with the kids around.

My normal every-day cooking is good enough – my kids eat it without complaint (for the most part), my husband enjoys it and compliments it and me (as every good husband should), and it doesn’t (usually) take too much time and concentration from me (which is a high priority around here with my 3 little ones). But the way I love to cook takes more time and effort than I can give it during my regular days, and often includes ingredients that my kids aren’t excited to try. In a quick dish, I don’t mind using stuff the kids aren’t thrilled about, but when I spend a long time on a meal, the last thing I want to hear is “I don’t LIKE this” or “this tastes FUNNY” or any number of other comments about why I didn’t make spaghetti or pizza. So this cabin trip was the perfect time for me to make a few dishes that I have wanted to try for a while but haven’t been able to find a good time or reason.

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The first night we had leftover chili that I brought from home, and it’s a good thing I brought it because it was almost midnight before we were finally able to eat. But from then on, food was a whole different story.

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For breakfast Saturday morning, we had Lil’ Citrus Muffins – a Pampered Chef recipe (and you can’t go wrong using one of their recipes). Instead of making mini muffins, I made these regular sized. We’ve had them at home before (as mini muffins) and they were great (the kids loved them too) but I didn’t have a mini muffin pan at the cabin so I modified the recipe a bit. Basically the only changes I had to make were less butter/sugar for the topping, and to cook them longer (obviously) since they were bigger.ย I also used light sour cream instead of the regular stuff.ย Instead of making 24 mini muffins it made 8 regular sized muffins. I baked them at 425 for 8 minutes then at 375 for another 20 minutes or so. I used a silicone muffin pan sprayed with cooking spray and they came right out after sitting for about 3 minutes in the pan to cool slightly.

For lunch on Saturday, it was Monte Cristo Sandwiches. We’ve had these at home before too, but the kids are unfortunately not fans. Kimball specifically requested we eat these up at the cabin, and I was happy to make them. They’re easy and really, really good. I used mozzarella cheese and strawberry jam instead of the provolone and raspberry called for in the recipe. I’ve also found that, imho, 3 eggs is too many for making 4 sandwiches, and consequently to make 2 sandwiches, I only used 1 egg. That was perfect. I didn’t have dry mustard so I just put some regular mustard in the egg mixture. I’m sure I also didn’t use anywhere near as much meat as it calls for. It says to use “hearty bread” and I always use French or Italian bread for these – makes for some really great sandwiches!

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So for dinner on Saturday, we had Florentine Stuffed Chicken Breasts. This is another Pampered Chef recipe, from their “Stoneware Inspirations” cookbook. I’ve been wanting to try this one for a long time, but given the reasons I’ve already explained, this was the first time since I got the cookbook years ago that I’ve felt like it was worth the time.

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They were absolutely wonderful, and I’d recommend them to anyone who likes chicken! The cheeses are the secret in these stuffed beauties, and add the perfect flavor to the filling as well as the crust.

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Kimball was kind enough to cook the veggies for me (but not really over the fire….)

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I don’t have the small bar pan so I used the mini oval baker (which I just tried to find a link for and it’s not there – maybe they’ve stopped selling this product!) and they fit perfectly, though because they were touching each other and the sides of the pan, the crust didn’t brown on the sides. Still fabulous though, and very pretty to look at.

Sunday morning was omelets. Fillings included sausage, cheddar cheese, onions, red peppers, and mushrooms. I’ve recently learned to make omelets properly and have since been very pleased with them. Turns out they’re not as hard as I thought, and the secret is in the pan. I get cooking emails from The Prepared Pantry and somewhere in there, I received instructions for making the perfect omelet. I looked on their site to try and find the instructions, but I can’t for the life of me figure out where I found them the first time, so I’m just copying them here from my file. FYI – when I make an omelette, I usually use 2 eggs and cook it in my eight-inch pan – perfect size.

How to Make the Perfect Omelet

1. Choose the right size of pan.ย  A three-egg omelet requires an eight-inch pan.ย  The pan should be nonstick.

2. Whisk the eggs together in a bowl.

3. Put a pat of butter in your nonstick pan.ย  Place it on medium-high heat.ย  On our stovetop, a high BTU gas burner, thatโ€™s 6 out of ten.ย  Heat the butter to just short of brown and swirl it around the pan.

4. Pour the eggs into the hot pan.ย  Salt and pepper the eggs.

5. Scramble the eggs with a soft silicone spatula scraping the bottom and sides of the pan.ย  The eggs will cook quickly and curds will form.

6. When the eggs approach the consistency of cottage cheese with mostly solids but some liquid egg, stop stirring.ย  Use the spatula as a paddle to pat the eggs down into an even layer.ย  Let the eggs continue cooking until the liquids are set and the top of the omelet is cooked.

7. Place the fillings in a row across the omelet just off to one side.ย  For most fillings, you will want them pre-cooked.

8. The omelet should slip around in the pan without a hint of sticking.ย  Move the pan to a plate, tip the pan on angle over the plate, and gently shake the omelet onto the plate filling side first.

9. When the omelet is about half onto the plate, twist the pan with your wrist folding the remaining omelet over that on the plate.ย  The omelet should be folded over with the bottom edge protruding about one-half inch.

Your omelet should be golden brown and puffy with the interior set and any cheese melted.ย  A three egg omelet should cook in five minutes or less.ย  For larger omelets, use larger pans.

Sunday for lunch we had Hot Cheesy Spinach Dip. This is a recipe I have on a card that I got from I unfortunately can’t remember where. I suspect it was one of those packages of recipe cards that come in the mail from time to time. It does say “Party Favorites” in the corner of each card, so maybe that will give you a clue if you want to go find them. This was a great recipe and I enjoyed it quite a bit. I did use fresh spinach and wilted it before adding to the recipe (place in microwave safe bowl and cook on high for 3 or 4 minutes or until wilted). I left out the water chestnuts as I’m not a fan of those. Also, I never buy half-and-half and so instead I used 50% whipping cream and 50% milk as a substitute. I’m sure it’s not exact but it works. I halved the recipe, and also sliced up about 3/4 of a (store purchased – gasp) baguette and toasted the slices by placing them on a cookie sheet and baking for 5 minutes at 350. I’m pretty sure this is supposed to be an appetizer (the recipe serves 8, and I halved it so we had 4 servings) but we ate it as a meal. I loved it!

Sunday dinner was sandwiches in the car on the way home. But as a treat, I had brought some of the Whole-Wheat Brownies that I made a few weeks ago and froze as an experiment to see if they would still taste good after having been frozen. The answer? YES. VERY YES. In fact, I’d say they tasted better after being frozen than they did before freezing, even after letting them sit for 24 hours after baking as the recipe suggests. I love these brownies, and wish I could eat them all when I make them. I do deviate from the recipe a touch: slightly less butter (probably about 3/4 cup instead of 1 cup), 3 eggs instead of 4, hot chocolate powder instead of espresso powder (I’m not a coffee drinker), and regular cocoa + 3/8 tsp baking soda instead of Dutch process cocoa.

So there you have it – my meals for the few days we were at the cabin. I’m impressed I was able to cook these things bringing only a few of my specialty tools up to the cabin (lemon zester, garlic press, oval baker, non-stick 8″ frying pan, and meat tenderizer). Turns out the kitchen there is nearly as full as mine here at home! Ok – maybe not really, but it was full enough for my purposes. ๐Ÿ™‚

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A Changing Age

I’m getting old. It’s true. Little by little, I’m no longer young. It’s slightly depressing. Sure – I’m not really old yet (by no means am I approaching the century mark), but I’ve begun to realize I’m not as young as I used to be. There are too many signs: lines on my face, my body is starting to fail me, I realized I’ll be 40 when my oldest graduates from high school, and I’m watching as technology passes me by.

I’m still mistaken for a teenager at church youth functions which helps me feel the aging a little less. On Sunday, we had a combined youth meeting and since I’m a leader in the youth program at church, that meant I attended. They were numbering off the youth for discussion groups and tried to count me. It’s embarrassing (and my face turned bright red), but I recognize it as a compliment as well and I’m thankful for that.

I still get funny looks from people in stores when they realize I’m a mom to a 2-year-old. I’ve been told more than once that I look too young to have a child that old, and people are always stunned when I follow that up by telling them I also have an almost 4-year-old and a 6-year-old.

But, complimentary mistakes aside, I’m definitely getting older and feeling it. Last week is when it really hit me, and I’m doing my best to come to terms with my increasing age.

I was washing my face one night before going to bed when I noticed that there are lines under my eyes. Smile lines, thankfully, which I hope means I do a fair amount of smiling and laughing these days. But lines nonetheless.

The next morning I got to thinking and realized that when my oldest graduates from high school, I’m going to be 40 years old. Then my middle child will graduate when I’m 42, and my youngest will graduate when I’m 44. This scares me because I can’t believe my oldest is already headed for first grade in the fall, and my youngest will be starting preschool next year. It’s insane how fast they get bigger. At this rate, I’m going to blink and it’ll be their graduations.

In addition to that, I’ve started to notice my body isn’t holding up as well as it used to. I’ve been seeing a podiatrist because for the last about 1 1/2 years, my left foot has been bothering me. Turns out I have a bunion on my big toe which is causing me to have mild (but increasing) arthritis in my foot, as well as numbness in my toe. So I get to have surgery to remove the bunion. Lovely. To me, surgery isn’t something you have when you’re young. I know that young people have surgery too, but it’s the stereotype that’s getting me here – you get old, your body falls apart, and you have surgery to fix it. I was at a youth function a month ago and an elderly lady was speaking to the youth. She was preparing to have surgery the next day and commented that "as long as they keep making new parts and I keep making money, I’ll keep buying them." I’m not scheduled for a hip replacement yet, but give me a few more years and I’ll see what I can do. ๐Ÿ˜‰

As if all that wasn’t enough, I’m watching as new technology comes, gains popularity, and dies down only to be replaced by something new, all before I managed to get a handle on it. Take texting, for instance. Yes, I do have a cell phone. But I’ve never bothered to figure out how to text. Heck – I’m lucky if I can find my own cell phone number in the millions of menus in my phone! There was no way I was going to learn to text. My little brother got engaged on Valentine’s Day, and he texted me to let me know she said yes. We were sitting at dinner and all of a sudden, my phone (which typically has a dead battery or is on silent mode, but magically happened not to be either that night) made a noise I don’t believe I’ve ever heard before. I pulled it out and lo and behold I had a text message from him! So, wanting to reply and say congratulations, I muddled my way through finding the letters to type a short message. But try as I might, I couldn’t find the punctuation. I found the smileys, so I sent him a bunch of those, but no periods, exclamation marks, or apostrophes. As it happened, the water boy came past to fill my cup and he was kind enough to show me where the punctuation was. Boy was that embarrassing.

The other technology that I’m watching pass me by is the online contact management types of things, like Facebook. I’ve been invited to join Facebook and reunion.com (or something like that) and a few others in the last 4 or 5 months, and I’ve basically ignored the invitations, because I don’t know what they are, I don’t have a desire to learn, and I don’t feel like having another thing on the computer taking me away from real life. (As though I’m not busy enough as it is!) But, I was talking with my dad on the phone one night and mentioning this to him, and he pointed out to me that if you don’t follow technology, it passes you by. Before I know it, I’ll turn into my teenage memory of the old ladies at church who couldn’t figure out how to get a CD player to play a song. I always said to myself that I’d never get that far out of touch with technology.

Hah.

So here I stand (sit typing) today, watching as the world passes me by. I wonder where all the years have gone, and then I look around me and realize that I’ve given some of the best years of my life to my husband and my children. And that’s just fine with me. If I had to choose a place to spend my years, this is it – surrounded by people I love, who love me, and doing the little things just because I know it will make them feel happy or special. And if technology passes me by and I become one of the old ladies who can’t figure out the new stuff, then I hope my kids will be willing to teach me. If not, there’s always the restaurant water boy.

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Weight Update

Some time ago I decided it was finally time to care enough about myself to lose some weight and get healthy. Highly determined and armed with all kinds of information, I started on my weight loss journey with a numeric goal in mind. After about a year and some serious effort, I managed to come within 2 lbs of my goal. However, it wasn’t meant to be. You see, I had done some research online to find my "ideal weight" based on my height, and found a weight that I was trying to get to. Turns out this "ideal weight" wasn’t so ideal for me after all. I managed to cause myself some medical problems that, after several months and several hundreds of dollars in medical tests and non-answers from multiple doctors, turned out to all be related to the fact that I had managed to lose too much weight. (Maybe the fact that I couldn’t find pants that would stay up should have clued me in, but I was so focused on reaching the magic number that I ignored the other signs!)

So, in my effort to be healthy, I spent last November and December eating all the candy and treats I wanted, and managed to put on about 20 pounds and solve my medical issues. However, I felt swollen and bloated (obviously – 20 pounds in two months will do that to you) so I knew I needed to work on losing some weight again. So my new goal was to find a weight that wouldn’t cause me medical problems but that would still be low enough that I’d feel good about myself and how I felt and looked. And I’m proud to say that after 7 weeks of 30 minutes of exercise a day, 6 days a week, and watching what and how much I ate, I’m back down 13 pounds and medical-problem-free. So now I’m learning to maintain my weight by continuing my 30 minutes of exercise and eating a healthy amount and variety of foods. And so far things are going well.

The moral of this story? Don’t believe everything you find on the internet. I found this erroneous weight in more than one place, and I tried for months to lose those last two pounds, only to watch my weight yo-yo and feel myself get more and more frustrated. So pay more attention to how you feel than the number on the scale. And don’t exercise yourself to death or starve simply because you want to reach a number. There’s a healthy way to reach a realistic and healthy weight goal! I’m living proof that it can be done!

My exercise plan? MWF I do 15 minutes of isometrics for my legs and buns, followed by 9 1/2 minutes of High Intensity Interval Training on my stationary bike, followed by about 3 minutes of inner thigh exercises. TThSa I do 15 minutes of isometrics and weights for my arms and shoulders, followed by 15 minutes of isometrics for my abs.

My eating plan? Eat a good variety of food. Most (if not all) whole wheats. More beans and nuts than meat. Healthy fats instead of empty fats. Enough calcium. Fruits and veggies every day. Drink plenty of water (I drink between 60 and 80 oz of water a day, depending on my exercise) in addition to juice or milk.

My weight plan? Watch the number on the scale. If it’s too high one day, eat a little less than I would have otherwise. If it’s too low one day (like it was yesterday), eat a bit more than I would have otherwise, or maybe have a treat (like the cheesecake I had last night).

Hopefully, with all of this, I can keep my weight where I want it, and stay healthy.

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